After my husband Paul was diagnosed with lung cancer, he said, “It’s going to be OK.” And I remember answering back, “Yes. We just don’t know what OK means yet.”
Paul and I met as medical students at Yale. I fell in love with him as I watched the ________he took with his patients. He later told me he fell in love with me when he saw me ________ over an EKG(心电图) of a heart that had ________ beating. We didn’t know it yet, but we were learning how to ________ suffering together.
I lived with Paul’s illness for 22 months. I’ve always thought of myself as a caregiver, and attending to Paul ________ what that meant. As physicians, we were in a good ________ to understand and even ________ the diagnosis. We weren’t angry about it, luckily, ________ we’d seen so many patients in ________ situations, and we knew that ________ is a part of life. But it's one thing to know that; it was a very ________ experience to actually live with the sadness and ________ of a serious illness.
As a poem says, “Your absence has gone through me like thread through a needle. Everything I do is sewn with its color.” For me that poem ________ my love for Paul, and a new strength that came from loving and losing him. When Paul said, “It’s going to be OK,” that didn’t mean that we could ________ his illness. ________, we learned to accept both joy and sadness at the same time because we are all born and we all die. ________ ourselves in the full range of experience—living and dying, love and ________—is what we get to do. When we approach suffering together and choose not to ________ it, our lives don’t shrink; they ________. Our job isn’t to fight fate, but to help each other ________. That’s how we make it OK, even when it’s not.
1.A. control B. test C. notice D. care
2.A. whisper B. watch C. cry D. think
3.A. ceased B. rejected C. delayed D. missed
4.A. stand B. approach C. assess D. contain
5.A. transformed B. deepened C. refreshed D. enlarged
6.A. status B. will C. knowledge D. position
7.A. cure B. accept C. fight D. rid
8.A. because B. once C. providing D. until
9.A. stable B. virtual C. impressive D. disastrous
10.A. love B. cancer C. death D. devotion
11.A. different B. unforgettable C. reluctant D. terrifying
12.A. prevention B. risk C. uncertainty D. influence
13.A. brings forward B. figures out C. sets out D. calls up
14.A. confirm B. resist C. cure D. relieve
15.A. Instead B. Therefore C. However D. Moreover
16.A. Burying B. Involving C. Employing D. Enjoying
17.A. divorce B. struggle C. loss D. disagreement
18.A. hide from B. laugh at C. get over D. wipe out
19.A. survive B. expand C. switch D. continue
20.A. away B. over C. up D. through
--I’ve given up smoking already, darling.
--You should have taken the doctor’s advice years ago. , anyway.
A. Better late than never B. It’s easier said than done
C. No pains, no gains D. Well begun is half done
—The Youth League Committee is looking for volunteers for the promotion of rubbish-sorting. Would you like to join in?
—________. Everyone should do his bit.
A. You asked for it B. You bet
C. You have my word D. You’ve got me there
His comprehensive surveys have provided the most__________statements of how, and on whatbasis, data are collected.
A. explicit B. ambiguous
C. original D. arbitrary
Several melon stalls were below the window and above them _______ with a big clock on top of it.
A. was the telecom tower B. were the telecom tower
C. the telecom tower was D. the telecom tower were
The only way to succeed at the highest level is to have total belief __________ you are better than anyone else on the sports field.
A. how B. that
C. which D. whether
