I read about an athlete who made it all the way to the Olympics despite hating his chosen sport. He committed his entire life to __ one tiny, yet large, sentence---I’m proud of you. At some point we all have someone we want to __, whose approval means the world to us.
I have a clear memory of the person I wanted approval from telling me I was intelligent, the kind of memory that_____ very clear because you’ve recalled it so many times. I had __ someone’s opinion about buying a Canadian soda. “We should really support our own economy,” ten-year-old me said. I had no idea what that meant, __ I was looked at with approval, and my heart was filled with __. I loved that feeling---the approval of my hero. It was nothing like the Olympic athlete, but I made some very big __ based on what might make them ___. I was hugely affected by wanting their approval.
Months ago this person removed me from his life. It hurt a lot. However, in life there is rarely hurt __ growth. I recently ___ on myself and behavior and noticed something---I feel free. After a period of denying and upset, I __that this is just how it is. This realization made me see how often I was transforming myself according to the ____, “what would they think?” I’d been using the desire for approval as an ___ excuse for hiding. My excuse was gone immediately I realized it ___. It was time to authentically step into myself and stop hiding who I am from others. Are you hiding? I hid in approval-seeking. Maybe you hide behind judgment. We all have our ways, and it can be really scary to let ___ go.
This thing is, __, as long as we prevent ourselves being truly seen, we will never be truly understood. Connection with others won’t be wholly authentic, and we will edit ourselves because we __ potential thoughts in other people’s heads. It’s pretty __. Of course, breaking up isn’t __ when you expect to be freed from wanting someone’s approval. You don’t even have to tell them you no longer care what they think of you. Just __ and do what makes you happy and go for the things you really want in life. Do your thing, and let them do theirs.
1.A. combing B. seeking C. applauding D. reading
2.A. love B. upset C. please D. annoy
3.A. stays B. looks C. proves D. becomes
4.A. shared B. evaluated C. analyzed D. parroted
5.A. since B. but C. as D. for
6.A. disappointment B. depression C. satisfaction D. amazement
7.A. profits B. statement C. decisions D. preparation
8.A. cozy B. healthy C. wise D. proud
9.A. with B. without C. by D. through
10.A. reflected B. dawned C. counted D. experimented
11.A. assumed B. accepted C. adapted D. argued
12.A. opinion B. concept C. thought D. reason
13.A. unconscious B. unforgettable C. unpleasant D. unfortunate
14.A. existed B. rose C. faded D. disappeared
15.A. it B. them C. us D. you
16.A. therefore B. instead C. though D. eventually
17.A. miss B. fear C. doubt D. advocate
18.A. appealing B. skeptical C. silly D. inspiring
19.A. impossible B. necessary C. important D. abundant
20.A. look out B. try out C. hold on D. go ahead
—We need to turn to Professor Smith for help.
—_________? Our classmate Simon is an expert at solving such problems.
A. Why not B. How come
C. Why bother D. What for
—Jane really cares what others say about her.
—No wonder she is always ________.
A. letting the cat out of the bag B. walking on egg
C. like a cat on hot bricks D. more brave than wise
—Have you heard the bad news that Stephen Hawking, one of world’s greatest physicist passed away on March 14?
—You bet! It is only when you suddenly lose someone _______ you fully realize how much you value him.
A. do B. then
C. will D. that
Had he taken his parent’s advice, he ______ having made such a silly mistake now.
A. would not regret B. would not have regretted
C. may not regret D. does not regret
Just when we are going to have a holiday, my little son ________ have a headache.
A. dare B. can
C. may D. must