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Deal with conflict
Losing friends is about as easy as making friends if you don’t know how to deal with anger and conflict .Conflict is part if everyone’s _1.___. It will show up at school, at work and at home .It’s Ok to feel angry, annoyed or sad. These feelings are __2.__,but different people deal with _3._____in different ways .Some people shout, call people names ,or even hit the person who has __4.___them .Others do their best to keep away from disagreements but very few deal with conflict __5.____.
Dealing with conflict is a step by step progress. __6.____you start discussing the problem ,calm down ,count to 10 and imagine a relaxing __7._____.Then ,say what is really bothering you ,but watch how you express yourself .Don’t complain. Share _8.__you feel by using “I “ For example ,don’t say “You are always ordering me to do this or to do that ,”but “I feel sad__9._you don’t pay attention to what I think .
You want people to _10.____your opinion so make sure you practice what you want to say .Listen carefully to the other person and accept that he or she might see the problem in a different way .Be open minded and willing to say sorry.
When I was eleven years old, God gave me a gift of happiness. One day, on my way home
from school, a truck ran over me and cut off my . As I lay there bleeding, I realized that I might have to live the rest of my life legs. How depressing （令人沮丧的）! then I realized that depression won’t get my legs back. So I decided not to my life feeling depressed. When my parents arrived at the , they were shocked and sad. I told them, “I’ve already the fact. Now you also have to get used to this.” Ever since then, I often see my friends getting about little things: their bus comes late; they get a bad grade on a test. But I just life. I was lucky to realize that it is a waste of energy to focus on what you have , and that the key to happiness is to take pleasure in what you have. Sounds simple, doesn’t it ? So are many people unhappy? People often think happiness is based on what you . “My whole life would improve if I had a new car.” But when you get the and what happens? For a whole week you are walking on air. Then you go right back to being .Happiness is not a happening; it’s a state of .You can have whatever there is in the world and still be uncomfortable. Or you can have relatively and feel full of joy. Happiness comes from mastering the art of appreciating and consciously taking pleasure in what you already have.
1.A. arms B. legs C. feet D. fingers
2.A. without B. by C. on D. with
3.A. So B. Or C. But D. Once
4.A. spare B. devote C. influence D. waste
5.A. hotel B. hospital C. station D. school
6.A. believed B. accepted C. refused D. received
7.A. worried B. guilty C. excited D. curious
8.A. hate B. enjoy C. save D. dislike
9.A. struggled B. supported C. lost D. completed
10.A. how B. why C. when D. whether
11.A. achieve B. promise C. donate D. admire
12.A. car B. life C. job D. grade
13.A. wise B. silly C. friendly D. unhappy
14.A. pain B. appearance C. anger D. mind
15.A. much B. many C. little D. all
——Do you know________?
——This afternoon.
A．when will the policenman give us a talk
B. where will the policeman give us a talk
C.when the policenman will give us a talk
D.where the policeman will give us a talk
——I have looked for my lovely dog everywhere but I still can’t find it.
——________.
A.Great B. Good idea
C.I don’t think so D.I’m sorry to hear that
We should think of others if we want to ________them.
A.get on well with B.hear of
C.get ready for D.hear from
lin Fang comes home ________ than before this term. She doesn’t have so many classes in the afternoon.
A.early B.earlier
C.late D.later
