Betty and Harold have been married for years.But one thing still puzzles old Harold.How is it that he can leave Betty and her friend Joan sitting on the sofa,talking,go out to a ballgame,come back three and a half hours later,and they’re still sitting on the sofa?Talking?
What in the world,Harold wonders,do they have to talk about?
Betty shrugs.Talk?We’re friends.
Researching this matter called friendship,psychologist Lilian Rubin spent two years interviewing more than two hundred women and men.No matter what their age,their job,their sex,the results were completely clear:women have more friendships than men,and the difference in the content and the quality of those friendships is “marked and unmistakable.”
More than two-thirds of the single men Rubin interviewed could not name a best friend.Those who could were likely to name a woman.Yet three-quarters of the single women had no problem naming a best friend,and almost always it was a woman.More married men than women named their wife/husband as a best friend,most trusted person,or the one they would turn to in time of emotional distress(感情危机).“Most women,”says Rubin,“identified at least one,usually more,trusted friends to whom they could turn in a troubled moment,and they spoke openly about the importance of these relationships in their lives.”
“In general,”writes Rubin in her new book,“women’s friendships with each other rest on shared emotions and support,but men’s relationships are marked by shared activities.”For the most part,Rubin says,interactions(交往)between men are emotionally controlled-a good fit with the social requirements of “manly behavior.”
“Even when a man is said to be a best friend,”Robin writes,“the two share little about their innermost feelings.Whereas a woman’s closest female friend might be the first to tell her to leave a failing marriage, it wasn’t unusual to hear a man say he didn’t know his friend’s marriage was in serious trouble until he appeared one night asking if he could sleep on the sofa.”
1.What old Harold cannot understand or explain is the fact that_____.
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A．he is treated as an outsider rather than a husband |
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B．women show little interest in ballgames |
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C．women have so much to share |
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D．he finds his wife difficult to talk to |
2.Rubin’s study shows that for emotional support a married woman is more likely to turn to _____.
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A．a male friend |
B．her parents |
C．a female friend |
D．her husband |
3.According to the text,which type of behavior is NOT expected of a man by society?
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A．Ending his marriage without good reason. |
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B．Complaining about his marriage trouble. |
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C．Spending too much time with his friends. |
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D．Going out to ballgames too often. |
4.Which of the following statements is best supported by the last paragraph?
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A．Women are more serious than men about marriage. |
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B．Men keep their innermost feelings to themselves. |
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C．Men often take sudden action to end their marriage. |
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D．Women depend on others in making decisions. |
5.The research done by psychologist Rubin centers around_____.
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A．friendships of men and women |
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B．happy and successful marriages |
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C．emotional problems in marriage |
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D．interactions between men and women |
I believe in miracles because I’ve seen so many of them.One day,a patient was referred to me who was one hundred and two years old.“There’s a 36 in my upper jaw,”she said.“I told my own dentist it’s nothing,but he 37 I come to see you.”
Her eighty-year-old son accompanied her.He would 38 to add something,but she stopped him.She wanted to tell everything hereslf.I found a large cancer that spread over much of the 39 of her mouth.A careful examination later 40 that it was a particularly bad sort of cancer.
During her next appointment,I explained to her the 41 of the problem.She clasped my hand in hers and said,“I know you’re worried about me,but I’m just 42 .”
I thought otherwise.After considerable 43 on my part,and kindness on her part because she wanted to 44 me,she agreed to have me refer her to a cancer surgeon.She saw him,but as I expected, 45 treatment.
About six months later she retarned to my office,still energetic and 46 .
“How are you?”I asked.
“I’m just fine,honey,”she responded 47 high spirits.“When can I get started on fixing my dentures(假牙)?”
Surprised to see her at all,I answered 48 ,“Let me take a look in your mouth and we’ll see about it.”
I couldn’t believe my eyes.The cancer that had 49 nearly the entire roof of her mouth was gone—only one small area of redness 50 .
I had read of such things happening,but had 51 seen them with my own eyes.That was my first miracle.Since then I’ve seen many others,because they keep getting 52 to see.In fact,miracles are daily events for me now.And people are a miracle, 53 through them we have a chance to know ourselves and to 54 the miracles of one another.
Since my first miracle,I’ve come to understand that the time and place for a miracle is 55 we choose to find it.
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Her son,to whom she was so_____,went abroad ten years ago.
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请根据句意出所学短语（共5小题，每题1分，共5分）
1.Concerning scoring goals, he _______________(仅次于) Yaoming.
2.He_________ his success ______ hard work.(把…..归功于)。
3.He ______the business _______ to his daughter(移交)。
4.The whole meal was good but the wine __________(尤其，特别) was excellent.
5.We took our umbrellas when we went out _______________(为了) protect us from a heavy rain.
单词拼写（共10小题，每题0.5分，共5分）
1.Sport and ____________ (娱乐) have always been part of university life.
2.Young people are not ____________(满足) to stand and look at works of art; they want art they can participate in.
3.Is English a ____________ (必修) subject in your school?
4.I had a holiday in America for a ____________ (两周) last year.
5.Both poets drew their ____________ (灵感) from the countryside.
6.Everyone has his own ____________ (弱点).
7.We are so disappointed that he gave us an ____________ (模棱两可的) answer.
8.As a result, the government has strengthened r__________________ protecting these historic sites.
9.She offered me practical a____________ with my research.
10.I’ve met her on several o_______ recently.
